mandhispet asked: Just came across your blog and am loving it. I've just started dabbling in the dom/sub area with someone (you can hear her under "my pet" on my page) and wouldn't mind any pointers or advice you might have for a novice. Thanks!
Read a lot, educate yourself on the right way to be a Dom. I recommend a book called the Loving Dominant. Also, blogs by experienced Dom’s like Myself can be a source of good information. Know that you know very little. I am still learning every day after many years in the lifestyle. Be responsible! This pet is putting her love, trust and WELLBEING in your hands. Take this responsibility seriously. Listen intently and observe carefully… she will tell you many valuable things without her even knowing she is. Use this information wisely. you may be in charge but if you repeatedly make bad decisions for her she will move on. Remember, you both are two halves of whole, she is not inferior to you. Over communicate in both directions. Be strong, be protective, be a man and not a boy. Do this and she will blossom into the most beautiful submissive flower you have ever seen. Good luck to both of you.