A Master's Journey

Attention: Every Dom and Dom wanna be should read this. submissives should read it too. I have been asked so many times in the past about how to be a good Dom, what do I need to do to find a slave? Well here it is…a brief but excellent road map to D/s. If you are a sub looking for a Dom, look for these qualities. If you are a Dom looking for a sub, BE. THIS. GUY.

Excellent post! ~aMaster

beautflstranger:

what makes a good Dominant:

if i had to wager, i would say that most every Dominant’s heart would beat a bit faster upon seeing His woman in repose ,waiting for Him with adoration, devotion and love.

So what goes into making a good Dominant?

Where do You begin?

It’s all quite simple. It starts with three things:

1. listen.

2. leave Your ego at the door.

3. dial down Your intensity.

Start by listening….really listen and observe.

Know what You want, whom You want and why.

It’s not all about You and it’s all not about her. It is about both of Yyou.

Be perceptive. It’s a delicate dance.

By dialing down Your intensity..i don’t mean lose what You inherently are, i’m merely saying adjust when necessary.

Know Your woman. each of us are different..and one size does not fit all. what might have worked with one woman, will not necessarily work with the next.

You cannot demand her submission…rather let it flow to you.

love, devotion, adoration all come from a place of trust, communication and understanding.

so it means slowing it down and taking the time.

after all..life it too short for quantity.

but not long enough for quality.

and quality is what makes it all worthwhile.

there is nothing more atttractive in this world than a Gentleman who is self assured, confident and wears His ‘alpha maleness’ with ease.

beautflstranger 2012

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